As everyone knows, both sexes are
guilty of infidelity in marriage. The blame for a
broken relationship is not the fault of one gender
or the other; however, there are several aspects of
infidelity that are more attributable to women than
men. |
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The reasons women cheat vary
considerably. Some get involved in extramarital
affairs because they are lonely, others because they
want to escape the monotony of marriage. Still
others are motivated to cheat as a form of revenge
after they find lipstick or other tell-tale signs of
their husbands' infidelity. Then there are the
selfish, character-flawed women who marry good men,
who love and take care of them, but continue to
consort with other men for sexual excitement or for
the money and other material goods these men can
provide |
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Women are not nearly as inclined to
engage in infidelity purely for the sexual
gratification. They tend to select a partner that
they feel is an “upgrade” or somehow a better
selection (i.e. the rock star or alpha male
syndrome). They tend to engage in an affair with
someone they want to be with and see over and over
as opposed to simply finding someone that arouses
them and giving them physical pleasure. The
naturalistic view is that a cheating wife is simply
following her instincts and looking to be with the
“better” animal. She moves away from her husband to
be with a man who is stronger, better off, smarter,
etc. It is instinctual and natural. Although we do
not buy into that idea whole heartedly, the truth is
that a wife can want something more and may try and
find it with someone else. This can range from
finding someone she relates with better, all the way
to being a gold digger and finding a guy who can
give her more things than you. The “better man”
theory, whether the other guy is better or not,
holds true. If this is the case, the infidelity is
likely to be a simple precursor to a new
relationship and it is only an affair because she
does not have the other guy locked in yet |
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Another basic idea which everyone has
heard of is that women often marry for security as
opposed to love. The idea is that they need someone,
so they get married, not necessarily to the man of
their dreams. Along with this idea is its partner,
the idea that women are always looking for the best
mate they can find. They will “upgrade” if an
opportunity presents itself. As private
investigators specializing in this type of work, we
see many examples of cheating wives who are not
merely having an affair for the sex or the thrill of
it, but are trying to start a new relationship. They
are working on this “upgrade” while continuing to
maintain their existing marriage |
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A lack of sex or sex that is not
satisfying is another major motivator the leads a
wife to cheat. We have found that this is
particularly true when the cheating wife tried to
keep the sexual relationship with her spouse going
strong but was met with disappointment. She stays in
good shape, tries to be sexy and interesting for him
and he is still bored with sex or worse yet, will
not give her pleasure the way she wants it. There is
no romance and no connection. A wife who has gone
through this is far more likely to cheat when
someone shows a true interest in her. |
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Paybacks are a bitch, and if you
cheated on her, she may well pay you back by doing
the same. We have seen many cases of a wife cheating
on her husband as revenge for his infidelity or
believed infidelity. Women have come out of the cave
and they have sexual power. It is far easier for a
woman to get a man to have sex with her then the
opposite. Women know this and many will cheat to get
back or to level the playing field. |
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Some sexual behavior research
indicates that the cheating wife may see herself as
a victim of the “Little Woman Syndrome”. This is
essentially a case where a working wife is made to
feel like the “little woman” in her marriage rather
than a partner. She works just as hard as her
husband, but at the end of the day, she still has to
raise the kids, clean the house and be the quiet
wife so her husband can go out with the guys or
watch TV all night. Working women who contribute a
lot in the workforce and want to be treated with the
respect they deserve come home to a life that they
do not want. They are surrounded with people who
treat them with respect at the office and they want
the same from a marriage that will not give it to
them. This is a wife who may cheat because she wants
to be with someone who will treat her like an equal |
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Something that is not
gender specific but is
worth mentioning is that
in almost all cases of a
cheating wife is the
overall idea that
something is wrong in
the marriage. At least
one of them is unhappy
and most likely both
are. Someone’s needs are
not being met and
something does not work
the way that either
partner wants it to. |
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